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Remind me again — What is the Rule?


2009
12.14

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So this past week­end I had the plea­sure of meet­ing a nice young lady. While I was work­ing a party I had some very enter­tain­ing and fun con­ver­sa­tion with some­one and we exchanged num­bers. A close friend of mine would be espe­cially proud of me for not “drop­ping the pass” and recov­er­ing enough to pay atten­tion to a poten­tial hint. Let’s hope that the con­ver­sa­tion was gen­uine and I am afforded the chance to get to know here bet­ter. Now that we have passed the ini­tial stage, I have to get the young lady on the phone and talk to her some more. We need to find out if I was dream­ing or is it real­ity. Do I call her now (it’s been over 24 hours) or do I wait a bit? I am think­ing I call her now. What do you say?

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You Need Love and Patience


2009
09.16

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“With love and patience, noth­ing is impossible.”

I’ve always had a prob­lem with being patient when it comes to rela­tion­ships.  If I meet some­one, I usu­ally plan our wed­ding before I even go on the sec­ond date with the per­son. It’s some­thing that I am try­ing to work on, and I feel I am get­ting bet­ter at it.  How­ever, as much as I am try­ing, it’s still hard.
One of the things that I am try­ing to learn is that even if things don’t work out with a per­son, I shouldn’t feel like I wasted my time.  I usu­ally have those feel­ings, and then get dis­cour­aged, and don’t want to try again.  I have to under­stand that with love, you go through a lot of “no“s to get to the “yes.”  For some rea­son, I feel that I am get­ting closer because my atti­tude has changed.
I am more pos­i­tive, and I am now attract­ing peo­ple who mir­ror that.  Before, I was meet­ing emo­tion­ally unavail­able, depressed indi­vid­u­als who can’t even make them­selves happy.  It was always the same drama but with dif­fer­ent peo­ple.  Now that I am happy, I am meet­ing peo­ple who are will­ing to take the plunge with me.  I am still work­ing on how picky I am.
I have three prospects right now, and I am excited to get to know them bet­ter.  Even if it doesn’t work out, I will smile and con­tinue try­ing.  With­out try­ing, I will never find love.
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