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(Please watch from the begin­ning until 1:30 seconds)

This ques­tion brings me back to a scene from one of my favorite movies, “Four Wed­dings and  Funeral”. The scene is above and the impor­tant dia­logue is from the begin­ning until 1:30. The main char­ac­ter and his best friend are dis­cussing the future and pos­si­bil­i­ties of find­ing true love. He believes in the thun­der­bolt the­ory where you will meet your true love and know it imme­di­ately – like you have been hit by a flash of light­en­ing. His friend doesn’t agree with this con­cept. He is more in favor of find­ing some­one who you can stand to look at every day and then grow­ing to like them over time.

I post this clip and this small arti­cle because I met a new per­son yes­ter­day on a “first date”. She was funny, intel­li­gent and actu­ally pretty cute too. How­ever, there were no spec­tac­u­lar sparks or “thun­der­bolts”. Am I expect­ing too much or should I also wait and let it grow over time?? I swear the hope­less roman­tic in me is going to have me sin­gle for the rest of my life.