I don’t think things are going to work out with the short guy. One of the reasons my ex and I didn’t work out is because out of the blue, he decided that he didn’t want any more children. It’s something that we had discussed (we both wanted two more), and then he didn’t. Having at least one more child is something that I want, so I am not going to give that up. Now I make sure to know that up front before I even consider being with a guy.
He said that his brother had shown up with his two nieces, so I used that statement as an opportunity to ask the question. I said how cute! Do you want any of your own? He responded that having children is something that he hasn’t really wanted up to this point (he’s 33!), so he is undecided. I said oh ok. I’m really not here to waste my time. I am already compromising on his height and accent, and now this? I’ve lost interest.
I watch “The Hills,” and that is something the therapist said to Heidi. You need to be with someone who wants the same things as you. She’s right. I guess that’s it.
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