What do you do when a guy doesn’t call? I’ve had this happen to me over and over again. It’s gotten to the point that I expect that the guy will never call me back. The worst is when you get a call from him months (even years) later saying that he had so much going on during that time, so that is the reason he never called. When this happens to me, I usually don’t even attempt to give the guy a second chance. You already screwed me over once, so why should I even try again?
However, is this wrong of me? Everyone has gone through things where they knew that there was no point of starting a relationship, even if the person was awesome. But, shouldn’t he have know that before he even went on a date with me? I know that I have become overly harsh with guys. I think it’s cause I have been hurt more than I have ever been hurt by my two exes that I am afraid to give anything a chance. Every time I feel like I should be positive and take a risk, it backfires on me. Do I keep trying? Or do I give up?
Today I have a date with this guy, and I am trying to remain positive, but I feel like if I put too much thought into it, he won’t be anything but another of those one-date wonder. Let’s hope that I am wrong.