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		<title>Remind me again — What is the Rule?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Prentice</dc:creator>
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So this past weekend I had the pleasure of meeting a nice young lady. While I was working a party I had some very entertaining and fun conversation with someone and we exchanged numbers. A close friend of mine would be especially proud of me for not “dropping the pass” and recovering enough to pay attention to a potential hint. Let’s hope that the conversation was genuine and I am afforded the chance to get to know here better. Now that we have passed the initial stage, I have to get the young lady on the phone and talk to her some more. We need to find out if I was dreaming or is it reality. Do I call her now (it’s been over 24 hours) or do I wait a bit? I am thinking I call her now. What do you say?</p>
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		<title>Dating a Short Guy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 03:51:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Clementine</dc:creator>
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I have never imagined that I would date a guy who was shorter than 5’11″.  Since I started dating, all of my boyfriends have been taller than me, and I have been able to wear heels with no issues of towering over them.  I have met a wonderful guy, and we are both [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have never imagined that I would date a guy who was shorter than 5’11″.  Since I started dating, all of my boyfriends have been taller than me, and I have been able to wear heels with no issues of towering over them.  I have met a wonderful guy, and we are both attracted to one another.  The only problem is that he’s short.  He says he is 5’9″, and I’m 5’7″, but I looked in the mirror when we were at this party, and I don’t know if it was my hair, but I looked way taller than him.  This is with me wearing flat boots!</p></div>
<p>One of my friends is super short, and his girlfriend is my height, and they seem cute together.  He wanted to date me, but I was so hung up on height that I didn’t go there.  Now I see how he treats his girlfriend like a queen, and I wonder if that would have been me.  I never imagined that I would be in this position.  Liking a guy who is way too short for me.  I love my heels too much, and I don’t know if I could let them go.</p>
<p>I remember one time I went out with a guy who said he was 5’6, but it felt like he was only 5’4.  We had a great time, but I couldn’t let go on how short he was.</p>
<p>This is one of my issues.  I am way too picky and everything turns me off.  Should I not even go there with this guy cause he is short? Or should I just give it a go?</p>
<p>Has any girls dated shorter guys?  Was it awkward?  Did you have to sacrifice your heels? Guys, would you date a girl who is taller than you?</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 13:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Clementine</dc:creator>
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I felt a little down when things ended with the guy I was dating.  However, I realized that all I can do is keep on trekking.  My eHarmony subscription has finally run out, and I didn’t renew it.  The last day of my subscription the last guy I was dating messaged me. [...]]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: left; padding: 3px;">I felt a little down when things ended with the guy I was dating.  However, I realized that all I can do is keep on trekking.  My <a class="zem_slink freebase/guid/9202a8c04000641f8000000000599971" title="EHarmony" rel="homepage" title='Original Link: http://www.eharmony.com/'  href="http://heartbrakehotel.com/?i8qKnLMU">eHarmony</a> subscription has finally run out, and I didn’t renew it.  The last day of my subscription the last guy I was dating messaged me. We have been chatting nonstop ever since.  He is just as connected as I am, which I like.  It’s not like it has been with the past couple of guys I have dated who don’t know how to text or send email.  He has kids, like I do.</div>
<div style="text-align: left; padding: 3px;">There is also another guy.  I met him while out with my guy friend.  He seems sweet, and we had a ball that night.  We are suppose to go to dinner on Saturday, so I realized something.  I never have issues finding guys, so I need to be happy that I at least have a pool of guys I can date. Maybe one day, one of them will turn into something more.</div>
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