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Remind me again — What is the Rule?


2009
12.14

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So this past week­end I had the plea­sure of meet­ing a nice young lady. While I was work­ing a party I had some very enter­tain­ing and fun con­ver­sa­tion with some­one and we exchanged num­bers. A close friend of mine would be espe­cially proud of me for not “drop­ping the pass” and recov­er­ing enough to pay atten­tion to a poten­tial hint. Let’s hope that the con­ver­sa­tion was gen­uine and I am afforded the chance to get to know here bet­ter. Now that we have passed the ini­tial stage, I have to get the young lady on the phone and talk to her some more. We need to find out if I was dream­ing or is it real­ity. Do I call her now (it’s been over 24 hours) or do I wait a bit? I am think­ing I call her now. What do you say?

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Dating a Short Guy


2009
11.18

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I have never imag­ined that I would date a guy who was shorter than 5’11″. Since I started dat­ing, all of my boyfriends have been taller than me, and I have been able to wear heels with no issues of tow­er­ing over them. I have met a won­der­ful guy, and we are both attracted to one another. The only prob­lem is that he’s short. He says he is 5’9″, and I’m 5’7″, but I looked in the mir­ror when we were at this party, and I don’t know if it was my hair, but I looked way taller than him. This is with me wear­ing flat boots!

One of my friends is super short, and his girl­friend is my height, and they seem cute together. He wanted to date me, but I was so hung up on height that I didn’t go there. Now I see how he treats his girl­friend like a queen, and I won­der if that would have been me. I never imag­ined that I would be in this posi­tion. Lik­ing a guy who is way too short for me. I love my heels too much, and I don’t know if I could let them go.

I remem­ber one time I went out with a guy who said he was 5’6, but it felt like he was only 5’4. We had a great time, but I couldn’t let go on how short he was.

This is one of my issues. I am way too picky and every­thing turns me off. Should I not even go there with this guy cause he is short? Or should I just give it a go?

Has any girls dated shorter guys? Was it awk­ward? Did you have to sac­ri­fice your heels? Guys, would you date a girl who is taller than you?

Photo Detail:  too tall, orig­i­nally uploaded by dar­go­dargo.


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Realize I’m Lucky That Men Adore Me


2009
11.06

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I felt a lit­tle down when things ended with the guy I was dat­ing. How­ever, I real­ized that all I can do is keep on trekking. My eHar­mony sub­scrip­tion has finally run out, and I didn’t renew it. The last day of my sub­scrip­tion the last guy I was dat­ing mes­saged me. We have been chat­ting non­stop ever since. He is just as con­nected as I am, which I like. It’s not like it has been with the past cou­ple of guys I have dated who don’t know how to text or send email. He has kids, like I do.
There is also another guy. I met him while out with my guy friend. He seems sweet, and we had a ball that night. We are sup­pose to go to din­ner on Sat­ur­day, so I real­ized some­thing. I never have issues find­ing guys, so I need to be happy that I at least have a pool of guys I can date. Maybe one day, one of them will turn into some­thing more.


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