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		<title>By: heartbrakehotel</title>
		<link>http://heartbrakehotel.com/2009/12/07/next-attempt-chemistry-com/comment-page-1/#comment-38</link>
		<dc:creator>heartbrakehotel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those are great tips to discovering emotional health.  I also found that men who have a tendency to hang out with people five or more years younger than himself, have issues.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those are great tips to discovering emotional health.  I also found that men who have a tendency to hang out with people five or more years younger than himself, have issues.</p>
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		<title>By: simon</title>
		<link>http://heartbrakehotel.com/2009/12/07/next-attempt-chemistry-com/comment-page-1/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>simon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>in my experience, the key to discovering emotional health is to ask a lot of personal history questions up front (within the first couple weeks) and to know which red flags to look out for, ie:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-- lots of failed relationships&lt;br&gt;-- very long-term or serious (engagement/marriage) relationship that ended recently&lt;br&gt;-- lots of family problems&lt;br&gt;-- drinking/drug problems&lt;br&gt;-- little or no friends&lt;br&gt;-- problems at work</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>in my experience, the key to discovering emotional health is to ask a lot of personal history questions up front (within the first couple weeks) and to know which red flags to look out for, ie:</p>
<p>– lots of failed relationships<br />– very long-term or serious (engagement/marriage) relationship that ended recently<br />– lots of family problems<br />– drinking/drug problems<br />– little or no friends<br />– problems at work</p>
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		<title>By: heartbrakehotel</title>
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		<dc:creator>heartbrakehotel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Emotional health is something that you can usually tell in the first couple of months.  The only problem is that you waste a couple of months trying to figure it out. I just wish people were honest about themselves. It would save me a lot of time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emotional health is something that you can usually tell in the first couple of months.  The only problem is that you waste a couple of months trying to figure it out. I just wish people were honest about themselves. It would save me a lot of time.</p>
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		<title>By: ahr19</title>
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		<dc:creator>ahr19</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 14:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Only warning is that many people think they are emotionally healthy when they are just as damaged. So when you ask, they could say &quot;yes&quot; and have no clue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only warning is that many people think they are emotionally healthy when they are just as damaged. So when you ask, they could say “yes” and have no clue.</p>
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