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Can Someone Who Experience Tragedy Be Ready to Date?

2009
11.09

Sad­ness, orig­i­nally uploaded by alba calio.

I decided to Google the EHar­mony guy last night.

I found out that he had tod­dler twins who drowned two years ago. It made me sad because I could never imag­ine los­ing my chil­dren. I def­i­nitely am not going to men­tion it to him. The only thing that wor­ries me is that two years ago is a fresh wound, and that means he recently got divorced. Then I won­der if he got divorced because of the tragedy that occurred in the fam­ily. It seems like it was her neg­li­gence that caused the boys to drown, so maybe he blamed her for what hap­pened. If that’s the case, then that means that he still has unre­solved feel­ings for her.

It seems as though I always find the most emo­tion­ally unavail­able peo­ple to date.  I won­der why that is?  I saw a Sex and the City episode where Car­rie real­izes that she dates the wrong men. Is that me?  I am not say­ing that this guy is wrong for me, but I am already weary after find­ing this out.

As you are aware, this is one of the things that I need to work on. Overanalzying.


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  • Yep, over analyzing again. I would tread carefully on this one. I like the picture you chose for this entry too btw.
  • heartbrakehotel
    Since I asked him the question about his divorce and what not, he hasn't really responded, so I am assuming I hit a touchy subject, so I guess that's it.
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