Can I Still Find Love?

2009
10.03
Do we have time?

Do we have time?

Since I am a sin­gle man in one of the largest cities in the United States, many times I get asked “what do you look for in a woman?”. The most impor­tant por­tion on my answer is for the young lady to be my best friend. Some­one who can tell me what I need to hear even if I don want to hear it. Some­one who is there for me in the worst of times but also my cheer­leader in the best of times. Some­one who can sit with me on the couch and not say a word but we end up hav­ing the bet con­ver­sa­tion ever.  As I pre­pare to turn 35 years old I fear my time is slowly run­ning out. I won­der if ii have time to build this strong (best) friend­ship with some­one and test it out. Nowa­days it seems like more and more peo­ple are less likely to let some­one get close to them and build trust. This could be an issue. No build­ing trust = no being best friends. With­out trust I can­not truly open myself up to you and allow myself to be 100% vul­ner­a­ble. That is an issue.

What do I do?

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  • It seems there are things that you need to explore about yourself that might be one of the reasons that you are finding it hard to find that special lady. It seems you are afraid to show vulnerability in front of another person. If you can't show that you are human, then women will always be afraid to show that they are.
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